Priorities.

'No one is really busy. It all depends on what number you are on their priority list.' - Popcherry

It is necessary to create priorities. To make that list in your head placing things of higher importance over other aspects of your life. For example, watching the new episode of pretty little liars takes priority over tonight's homework.

It is possible that priorities can be flawed. As humans, we are guilty of placing some things in the wrong order, simply due to selfishness or maybe lack of self control. The harsh truth of life is that people prioritise other people. Most people put their family or themselves first, placing friends lower on the list. This is completely understandable however it is when people are discluded from the list that relationships start to breakdown.

Sometimes the reality is that people will put other things above you. They will get so caught up in their busy lives that something needs to give and unfortunately that may be you. You will get bumped down a few places on their priority list but hopefully you will still be on it. Being at the bottom of someone's priority could possibly be worse than being completely off it. All relationships take an equal amount of effort from both people. If you place someone higher on your priority list than they do for you then disappointment is unavoidable. All you can do is reevaluate your own list.

Love, Nicole Marie